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Risky Business

Savage Love About a year ago, I was pretending to read my boyfriend’s mind and jokingly said, “You want to put it in my ear.” Since then, I have seen references to ear sex (aural sex?) everywhere!

Wednesday, January 18, 2017 Dan Savage

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Savage Love My partner and I have been playing with male chastity devices. We’ve been considering going to a strip club while his cock is caged up and getting him lap dances.

Wednesday, January 11, 2017 Dan Savage

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Just Drinks

Savage Love My brother is a virgin and turning 30 in a few weeks. He said he wants to hire an escort just for drinks and conversation for his birthday, but he doesn’t really know how to tell what’s a reliable service o...

Wednesday, January 4, 2017 Dan Savage

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The Intern | Revolution Hall

Savage Love I’m having an issue with my boyfriend, and I don’t know if I am the crazy, paranoid, controlling party here. We have been together for more than a year and a half. We had troubles early on because he has a ...

Wednesday, December 21, 2016 Dan Savage

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Slouching Toward 2017

Savage Love Perhaps you’re not the best person to ask, being a cis white man, but as a queer woman of color, the election had an extremely detrimental effect on my relationships with my white partners. I love and care fo...

Wednesday, December 14, 2016 Dan Savage

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Savage Love I’m a 37-year-old gay man who just got out of an abusive relationship. We were together five years, moved to Portland together, got married three years ago, yada, yada, yada.

Wednesday, December 7, 2016 Dan Savage

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Savage Love My boyfriend of almost two years is wonderful, and we have had very few issues. But there is one thing that has almost been a deal breaker.

Wednesday, November 30, 2016 Dan Savage

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Eat Me

Savage Love I’m a very sex-positive girl and I finally convinced my boyfriend to open up about his fetishes.

Wednesday, November 23, 2016 Dan Savage

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Mourning in America

Savage Love I’m a longtime fan—reader and listener—and part of the 47 percent of white women who did NOT vote for Donald Trump. To say I’m disappointed, horrified, scared, and mad about the election is woefully ins...

Wednesday, November 16, 2016 Dan Savage

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Aaron The Side

Savage Love I am a bi man in my late 20s in a poly relationship. My primary partner’s name is Erin. One of the rules she mandated is that I cannot date anyone else named Aaron or Erin.

Wednesday, November 9, 2016 Dan Savage
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