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Savage Love I have two female sex partners who want to be breath-play dominated. I know the practice is dangerous, and I employ the rules of consent and communication a pro-Dom escort friend taught me.

Wednesday, May 24, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I’m a happily married straight man. My wife, who is 33 years old, cannot orgasm through intercourse since we had our last child. Her explanation is that she has this constant sensation to pee.

Wednesday, May 17, 2017 Dan Savage

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Traps and Triggers

Savage Love My husband is nearly 20 years older than me, which was never an issue early in our relationship.

Wednesday, May 10, 2017 Dan Savage

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The Leftovers

Savage Love Nancy, the tech-savvy at-risk youth, two gimps, Christ on the cross, the Easter Bunny, two weeping women, and the Easter Bunny’s smoking-hot leather master took to the stage at Revolution Hall in Portland, ...

Wednesday, May 3, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love


Savage Love I’ve got a question about initiating sex in my sleep—I read somewhere that “sexsomnia” is the “medical” term, but maybe the internet invented that?

Wednesday, April 26, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love

Dick Monsters

Savage Love I’m a queer girl living with a male partner. This weekend, we found ourselves in an after-hours club, made some new friends, and ended up at a house with two other guys and a girl.

Wednesday, April 19, 2017 Dan Savage

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Hard Limits

Savage Love I’ve read your column for as long as I had access to the internet and was interested in sex, so here goes: I’m a 27-year-old male with a 42-year-old girlfriend. We met at work; we were both going through di...

Wednesday, April 12, 2017 Dan Savage

Savage Love

Domme and Dommer

Savage Love I’m a woman in my late 40s. In my early 20s, I married a much older man. We did all the requisite things: kids, house, intercourse once a week.

Wednesday, April 5, 2017 Dan Savage

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Positive Thinking

Savage Love Gay guy here. Met a guy online. He came over. We had incredible sex and then a great conversation lasting several hours. But—and you knew there was one coming—he told me that he lied about his HIV status.

Wednesday, March 29, 2017 Dan Savage

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Curious Minds

Savage Love I recently spoke at Curious Minds Weekend in Toronto at the Hot Docs Ted Rogers Cinema. Audience members submitted questions on cards before the show—anonymously—but the moderator, Lisan Jutras and I were h...

Wednesday, March 22, 2017 Dan Savage
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